WHAT IS A FAMILY CONSTELLATION CIRCLE family constellations WHAT IS FAMILY CONSTELLATION THERAPY

WHAT IS FAMILY CONSTELLATION THERAPY

Bert Hellinger, who developed this method and philosophy f rom his integrations after exploring so many different healing therapies describes setting up a constellation :

“all people carry with them an energetic field or blueprint of their biological families—this field has been called by some a family soul, or family conscience. That field has an enormous unconscious effect on each family members life and all the people they interact with" 

Long standing problems with health, depression, relationships, failed finances, etc. are usually a result of unconscious ‘entanglements’ in the family soul. Doing a constellation is a way to bring those entanglements to light, and to allow for some resolution to happen. Quite often after a constellation, other members of the family who were not present for the constellation—and didn’t even know it was happening–report dramatic shifts as a result. Because the family is a system—like an energetic mobile, what affects one, affects all. And what keeps one stuck, affects them all…

According to this approach, every pain, every conflict, every conquest, every joy of the members of this system, alive, dead, aborted, excluded or forgotten, is transmitted to us silently and subtly from generation to generation causing entanglements in the family system and causing difficulties and difficult destinies in some of the members of subsequent generations.

The method centers its focus on detecting where is the transgressed order in the dynamic based on the premises of the "orders of love" : belonging , hierarchy and balance between giving and receiving. When this premises are not honored, respected or acknowledged the love cannot flow properly so the future members in the family system are on call to repair and evolve.

Benefits Of having a Family Constellations:

To dig up the “programs” that lead us to experience repeated and excessive situations, bringing to the consciousness the hidden dynamics that act in our lives;

To become aware of our interconnection with our linage and their circumstances;

To understand that information is not lost, it is merely transmitted from parents to children, in order that someone in the clan may release and transform what was lived and kept.

To reconcile the orders of love so we can reposition ourselves from the blind love ( unconscious loyalties) that kept us repeating ancestral programs.

To become compassionate and understanding about whatever traumatic events happened in our past generations, heal relationships from the soul and walk towards life setting free from old patterns that don't serve us anymore. 

Family Constellation is more than a therapy. 

For me it is a way of living

where one acknowledges life as it is. 

Where every single human being belongs and has a place. 

When in the name of love you give only what others can receive and give back. 

Love will only flow in our lives when:  

Belonging and Hierarchy are acknowledged. 

And when a balance between give and receiving is honored.  

This is the key to authentic healing and reconciliation.

WARMLY 

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